Hmmmm....?

I just finished watching the show "Everybody Loves Raymond". Now I usually dont watch this show but, pleh, i was bored. So basically Robert got a premotion on the same day Raymondrecieved the bad news that his book idea was declined. This accomplishment caused Ray to become jealous and sarcastic towards his brother, whereas he should have been happy for Robert instead of acting cold and bitter. After seeing this I was hit with the realization that everyone compares and contrasts everything; thereself, eachother.....everything. I mean, I know I do. The thing is, when I compare people or items, I dont exactly realize i'm doing it, it's an every day thing, no biggy...something my subconcious has control over. I understand that I really need to start becoming aware of this bad habit because, to put it simply, people aren't meant to be compared, comparing is just a flatter, less complicated version of judging. Something i honestly want no part of. People are all made differently for a reason, and the person they are today is formed from their past accomplishments....or failures...no one really has any idea the hardships someone might have gone through in order to transform into the modified, individual person they call "self"....Even if you think you know everything there is to know about someone, there are still things no one will ever know....perhaps because they dont even know it themselves. ??WRAP YOUR MINDS AROUND THAT, EHHH??
Sorry to go all Preacher/Karate Kid/Jedi Master on you guys. :P
TTFN